add the script call to the bottom of your page, that's what i do, right on top of </body>
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all my html
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<!-- AddThis Button BEGIN -->
<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style ">
<a href="http://www.addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250&username=xa-4d4c6a9028bcda9b" class="addthis_button_compact">Share</a>
<span class="addthis_separator">|</span>
<a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a>
<a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a>
<a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a>
<a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a>
</div>
<!-- AddThis Button END -->
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all my html
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<script type="text/javascript" src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=xa-4d4c6a9028bcda9b"></script>
</body>
</html>
Edit: By moving the script call to the bottom of the page your page will load before the script and your users will not feel the impact.